Hi guys! Long time no blogging, so thanks to Corona virus brought me here!😂
Thinking I’m gonna share my experience to spread out the positivity among these negative situations and news *sigh*
So today I asked my friend to Zoom, and because I am running a business, I offered him my product, in a smooth way. Just at the beginning he asked me to tell him directly and I said sorry I have to ask you some questions first before we move, because that’s part of my job. He listened and in the end he rejected my product, even when I haven’t explained it yet hahaha.. but that’s not the thing I wanna share with you guys.. so this friend left the meeting without telling me first as soon as he said “no”.. wth?! I was shocked, and when I shock, usually I cry.. yeah :’) why?
First. I thought he was a nice friend!
Second, none of my friend has ever done that to me..
After I calm myself down, I realized and thankful for what just happened.
It simply just showed that the problem is in him, not me. Because he, who was the one that have a bad manner. And also showed me what kind of person he actually is.
He said “I thought u wanted to offer me a business, not a product!” Well boy, who wants to cooperate (business) with a bad manner guy like you?
And as soon as I thankful, I also realized this is Habit 1: be PROACTIVE!
Whatever others say or do is beyond our control. What we can control is our respond to it. I still be kind to him instead of scolding him.. and that’s proactive.. I am proud of myself :)
Thinking I’m gonna share my experience to spread out the positivity among these negative situations and news *sigh*
So today I asked my friend to Zoom, and because I am running a business, I offered him my product, in a smooth way. Just at the beginning he asked me to tell him directly and I said sorry I have to ask you some questions first before we move, because that’s part of my job. He listened and in the end he rejected my product, even when I haven’t explained it yet hahaha.. but that’s not the thing I wanna share with you guys.. so this friend left the meeting without telling me first as soon as he said “no”.. wth?! I was shocked, and when I shock, usually I cry.. yeah :’) why?
First. I thought he was a nice friend!
Second, none of my friend has ever done that to me..
After I calm myself down, I realized and thankful for what just happened.
It simply just showed that the problem is in him, not me. Because he, who was the one that have a bad manner. And also showed me what kind of person he actually is.
He said “I thought u wanted to offer me a business, not a product!” Well boy, who wants to cooperate (business) with a bad manner guy like you?
And as soon as I thankful, I also realized this is Habit 1: be PROACTIVE!
Whatever others say or do is beyond our control. What we can control is our respond to it. I still be kind to him instead of scolding him.. and that’s proactive.. I am proud of myself :)
